About me

Hello!

My name is Mirjam Barner,

and I work as a relationship coach and attachment style expert. My profession is also my calling!

Originally trained and certified as a Strategic Intervention Coach (training with Tony Robbins) My focus is on supporting men and women who want to overcome challenges in their personal and professional relationships and experience profound, transformative development.

My approach is based on John Bowlby’s renowned attachment theory. Through my many years of experience as a relationship coach and my own personal journey, I have come to realize that changing our attachment behavior is the key to authentic freedom and inner well-being. In my coaching sessions, I help you identify and permanently transform limiting patterns, old survival strategies that sabotage you, beliefs, and triggers.

I am convinced that the path to healing can be challenging, but every step is worth it. The more we work on ourselves, the easier it becomes to unfold our inner freedom. As someone who has gone through personal challenges myself, I know exactly how that feels. Today, I see difficulties as opportunities for growth and am passionate about accompanying people on their individual journeys.

My own healing journey began shortly before I left my toxic relationship with a narcissist. But it was only when I took on a coach myself that I was able to take full responsibility for my thoughts, feelings, and actions. I learned to put myself first, stand up for myself, work through my CPTSD (complex trauma), fulfill my basic emotional needs, and thus break out of emotional codependency—I changed my insecure, disorganized/anxious-avoidant attachment style to a secure one and thus went from being a victim to the creator of my life. Now I know what self-love really means: accepting yourself completely and lovingly, with all your dark sides, but also with your light.

I want to enable my clients to have this experience too. Daily meditation, visualization, and continuous learning are an integral part of my life and flow into my work. My coaching is dynamic, full of energy, and constantly evolving—just like my clients.

I place a special focus on working with the inner child and healing attachment styles. These processes have led me to greater self-love and fundamentally transformed my life, both personally and professionally.

My goal is to accompany you on your journey toward greater self-love, inner freedom, and fulfilling relationships. Because we all strive for happiness and contentment. Sometimes we just need a little push or some guidance to unlock our full potential.

True to the motto: **“Always strive to be the best version of yourself”**, I invite you to join me on this journey.