"ATTACHMENT-STYLE TEST" FREE NOW! Welcome to your free Attachment Style Test “What`s your Attachment Style?” This test is designed to show you what your attachment style is. Everyone has an attachment style and everyone can change it! After you have taken the test, you will get a complete summary that shows you the deeper mechanisms that are anchored in your subconscious and thus responsible for how happy, unhappy, successful you are in your relationships. With you, your partner and your family. The attachment style theory is the largest and therefore most important indicator for whether you can lead successful relationships in the long run or not! Remember, EVERYONE can change their attachment style! There is only one secure style and three insecure styles. Taking the test will take you 10 min. max. Enjoy! There are 4 attachment style types, all with different character traits: Secure Do you feel safe and comfortable to communicate your needs & show your feelings openly with your romantic partner of other loved ones? Anxious-Preoccupied Are you constantly feeling not good enough, rejected, abandoned, less than.. or do you need to feel in control in your romantic relationships? Dismissive-Avoidant Are you afraid of commitment and thinking that relationships wouldn`t last and are overrated anyway? Fearful-Avoidant / Disorganized Are you in fight or flight modus all the time and tend to push and pull, once it looks like it`s getting more serious with someone? TO START THE TEST; PLEASE CLICK NEXT! 1. When I am in a romantic relationship, I constantly think of my partner. Yes No 2. I often put others on a pedestal, especially my romantic partner. Yes No 3. It comes natural to me to express my feelings and communicate my needs openly to my romantic partner and others I love. Yes No 4. It annoys me, when others do not respect my alone time, which I need a lot of. Yes No 5. I am willing to work things through and to try everything to make a relationship work. Yes No 6. My job is more important to me, than my romantic relationships. Yes No 7. I am very receptive of other peoples needs and often put them before mine. Yes No 8. I get annoyed and uncomfortable, when someone cries. Yes No 9. I am very good in making compromises and communicating them. Yes No 10. I find it hard to set boundaries, unless I am angry. I sometimes set intemperate boundaries and push people away. Yes No 11. If I feel any sign of my partner going cold on me, I instantly go into panic mode. I need to get close to my partner again as soon as possible. I always believe he/she has turned cold because I have done something wrong. Yes No 12. I don`t feel sad, if my partner leaves me. Yes No 13. I often feel hot and cold with my partner and tend to act in extremes in my romantic relationships. Yes No 14. I know I deserve a healthy, happy and fulfilling relationship. Yes No 15. I get triggered very easely and often go into fight or flight modus. I tend to push people away! Yes No 16. I do not feel like I need anything from my romantic partner or other loved ones. It would actually be quite difficult to imagine someone beeing able to meet my needs. Yes No 17. I am not a good partner in a relationship. I will disappoint the other person for sure. Yes No 18. If my partners behaviour or actions hurt me, I self soothe and try to understand, what made him/her act that way. Yes No 19. I crave intimacy but at the same time it terrifies me, because I am afraid to be hurt or abandoned. Yes No 20. I do not like making plans in advance. It makes me feel tight and under pressure. Yes No 21. It is normal for me to set boundaries. Yes No 22. I focus more on my relationship & partner than on myself. Yes No 23. No one takes away my space and privacy, not even my partner. I make sure of that. Yes No 24. I generally feel offended, if my partner or other loved ones want a lot of physical touch. Yes No 25. I would love for my partner and I to spend every single minute together, like 24/7. I don`t like to do things without him/her. Yes No 26. It is easy for me to show my feelings and vulnerability to my partner and loved ones. Yes No 27. My partner and other loved ones usually recover faster than me, from an emotional conflict. Yes No 28. I am always scared of my partner or another loved one leaving me. Yes No 29. I do not like to make plans in advance or beeing relied on. If I do make plans/dates in spite of this, I often cancel them. Yes No 30. As soon as it gets more serious or I really begin to like someone, I panic and go into flight mode. I push them away. Yes No 31. I feel loveable and I love myself. Yes No 32. Relationships are means of purpose to me. Love does not really have anything to do with it. Yes No Thank you for taking the test! You have done yourself and your partner/kids a great and important favor, by taking this test, because once you know what your attachment style is (also knowing your partners attachment style is extremely helpful) and it happens to not be the one secure style, then you have the chance to work on yourself and heal. IMPORTANT: You are NOT your attachment style, it is just a pattern in your subconscious mind that has been installed when you were a child and can be changed by you now at any time you choose to!! Your attachment style will change, once you are committed to do what`s neccessary. Do not worry, it is not going to take years. It is a process and that process will show you results pretty fast. I promise, it´s worth it. After all, you will understand yourself, your partner and kids much better, know why you are doing certain things, reacting in certain ways ect. and are therefor able to build happy, healthy and thriving relationships. Please remember to fill in your email address below, so you can receive your test result. Within the next 3-5 min. you will know what your attachment style is. A full report of your attachment style will be sent to you within the next 24 hours. Please do not forget to check your spam folder as well 🙂 Warmly, Mirjam Name Email Time’s up
