SECURE
ANXIOUS PREOCCUPIED
(Insecure)
ATTACHMENT STYLE COACHING
Understanding and reprogramming old patterns/limiting beliefs in your subconscious mind!
DISMISSIVE-AVOIDANT
(Insecure)
FEARFUL AVOIDANT/
DISORGANIZED
(Insecure)
The attachment style theory was developed by psychologists John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth in 1991. Ainsworth is known for her “Strange Situation” experiment. “Only with a secure attachment style can we have truly happy and fulfilling relationships!” ALL of us have an attachment style. We can have a small % of other attachment styles, but we have one main attachment style.
THE 4 ATTACHMENT STYLES
The different life stages of the attachment styles
Mother
Baby
Teenager
Adult (romantic/love relationships)
RELATIONSHIP & PARENTING COACHING WITH FOCUS ON ATTACHMENT STYLES
There is almost nothing that influences our love relationships as much as our attachment style. No wonder, it is the style we were first shown in life how to deal with feelings and needs! It is our “blueprint” (programming). If you know which attachment style you have, we will find out together in the coaching, which hidden (in the subconscious) mechanisms you have, which influence you negatively in your relationship with yourself, your partner, children and then you can reprogram your subconscious step by step, with daily, small exercises and finally heal!
- You have problems/challenges in your relationship/marriage that always seem to repeat themselves?
- You sometimes don`t understand why things seem to "trigger" you, why your partner keeps pushing your buttons?
- You don`t understand why your partner behaves in a certain way?
- You are always arguing, you can`t even remember a time, when it was peaceful and loving?
- You are not sure if you are still going to have a future together?
- You are in an ON/OFF relationship and don`t understand, why your partner is distancing him/herself (in flight modus) again and again?
- Your partner is very conrolling and clingy?
SECURE: "I am ok, you are ok", DISMISSIVE AVOIDANT: "I am ok, you are not ok"
ANXIOUS PREOCCUPIED: "You are ok, I am not ok" FEARFUL AVOIDANT/DISORGANIZED: "I am not ok, you are not ok"
Finally leave your past behind and have a healthy thriving and lasting relationship with yourself, your significant other and your children. YOU CAN DO IT!
